The most common mistakes men do when they search for a wife
in Russia:

1. Making judgement of women by photos. Men are attracted by photos as if they are from women’s magazine, glamourous photographs. The interesting point is that 20 percent of women receive 80 percent of letters. It does not mean that they are more interesting or more beautiful than others. Just their pictures are better than other ones. Or they have money to pay a professional photographer while other girls cannot afford this.

For men the result of psychological test and compatibility are not important. They do not pay attention to this. But, at the end, they will live with a Russian woman, not with a picture or virtual lady/ They will be unhappy if they have beautiful wife with whom they cannot find any common points, arguing, constantly nagging, who does not want to sleep with them, doesn’t understand his needs, doesn’t like his friends and family.

I talked to a man from Portugal not long ago, he was complaining that he get acquainted with several Rissian ladies by internet, in the pictures they sent, they were completely breathtaking, but when he came to Russia to meet them, they were just average, not extraordinary, not like supermodels from podiums.

When he was in St-Petersburg he saw many beautiful russian girls there. Walking in the streets, laughing a lot and talking with their friends, they were not hurrying. Why then he met Russian ladies, who were so beautiful on pictures and so exhausted, tired, dull, not funny in reality? Sometimes it also happens. If a girl is getting exhausted at work (for example she needs to rent an apartment, which is very expensive in Russia, or she is alone taking care about her child) of course she looks not her very best. You cannot imagine how this Rjssian girl can change after rest or if she has not to work so hard anymore. Accidentally, all the Russian girls with whom he met, were very hardworking ladies and after full-day work. And on the streets he saw Russian girls who were on vacation, and spending it in such a way, or students on holiday, or even does not work at all as they are from rich families or have rich boyfriends taking care about them. This is the reason of such a big difference.

2. The second mistake made by men, who are looking for a Russian bride, do is the fact that they are looking for a model-look in appearance of girl, they want to make jealous all their friends. But in reality they want to live with a normal type of a girl – kind-hearted, sincere, warm, faithful.

Unfortunately, most of model-looking girls do not want to have real relationships, all they want is men’s admiration, they want to be always in center of mens’attention. They do not need such things of relations like closeness, warmth, intimacy.

Another reason is that if there is such a paragon combining model-look appearance with comfort and warmth, they are really very rare. We have an anecdote about it:
Two men are sitting near the place, burning in fire. One man, looking in fire, says: - I never married in my whole entire life. – Why? – I was always looking for a perfect woman for me. – And? Couldn’t you find her? – No, I found her. But I obtained that I am not a perfect man for her.

It’s a very sad joke, but I’ve met some men acting in the same way and I saw them on different such kind of sites for more than 10 years.

3. Next mistake is a matter of choice. Some men just can’t stop doing it (some women also have same kind of problems). The idea of that somewhere is better than here. They find someone, everything is going good, meet them, like them, but they continue to look for a new russian women. Trying to find someone better. The idea of that somewhere there is a person, with whom it will be more interesting, it will be better is like a poison acting in them.

4. Another mistake made by men is that they register to site, but they don’t care about photos. They don’t put photos, or put some terrible ones, where it is impossible to see anything. It is illusion that women does not care about photos and images of men. Women are not like men, who are choosing by photos, they prefer men who are writing clever words, writing about themselves, their lives, hobbies. Of course, it is good when you are writing a lot of things about yourself, but photo is also very important. A lot is determined by your photo. It does not mean that women are looking for a model men (Even mostly model-looking men will make them afraid of themselves), they are looking for warmth coming from your eyes, for your smile, they want to feel reliability, strength and calmness coming from you. For some ladies it is important to see you making something in your home. Only after feeling some sympathy to you they will read about your interests, what you like, about your hobbies. Often they can become easy victims for scammers – for scammers picture is not important, they are ready to make contact with men without picture, write and answer to them without asking for any picture. If you really want to find a girl who will fall in love with you and who will be your only one, be energetic and do put some nice photos. Give to the girls more opportunities to understand your “I”.

5. Nearly half of men registered on the site are signing on and waiting for beautiful Rusian girls to write to them. Ask yourself, who has more chances and more choices to find their dream love, has more letters from ladies, those, who are just sitting and waiting for girls of their dreams t o write to them or active men, who are searching themselves for ladies of their hearts, who are writing themselves and answering to women writing them? It is obvious that second group of men has much more chances, especially considering that women usually do not want to be the side who made first step. Major part of them have traditional views and regard men as an active side and expect from them to take control in relation development. Russian girls are mostly like this. They prefer to wait, because in Russian they think that a girl who is too active is a bad one.

6. But the most surprising strategy for me is the behavior of some men who need ten (or something about that) confirmations from this particular woman that she really wants to communicate with them. They choose a woman, send her a “wink”, receive a wink or letter in answer. Send her postcard or wink again and receive something in answer. Than again wink, wink, postcard, wink, after getting 6-7 such “signs of attention” most women begin to get tired from this and quit this strange correspondence, stop answering. But these men are continuing to send them the “signs of their attention” to the women of their choice. But “the train is already far away”, most Rjssian girls are not interested in them anymore. Winks are not a sigh of attention. It is something like a “hello” while you are passing by your neighbor.

7. And the last common mistake is that some men want to find many women to visit in Russia, and only after that to come, they think that they are securing themselves from failure like this. But what is happening in reality is that women who were interested in them are loosing these interests with a time, and search for somebody else. Men continue to their searches in the attempts to find more girls. But some ladies do not want to wait for unknown period of time, and after sometime when men do not answer them when they will come to Russia, their interests in them stop. It is a process without end for them. So after you understand for good that this girl can be your Russian dream lady, pack your luggage and visit her personally. Do not waste your chance!

How to recognize a scammer? – Easy!